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Friendships aren’t always easy for kids. Almost every child struggles socially at some time, in some way—having an argument with a friend, getting teased, or even trying to find a buddy in a new classroom.

Although these are typical problems, they can be tough. Children want to fit in, but sometimes getting along with friends is complicated. Psychologist and children’s friendship expert Eileen Kennedy-Moore and parenting and health writer Christine McLaughlin give kids the answers they need to make and keep friends using five essential skills:

  • Reaching Out to Make Friends
  • Stepping Back to Keep Friends
  • Blending In to Join Friends
  • Speaking Up to Share With Friends
  • Letting Go to Accept Friends

With research-based, practical solutions and plenty of true-to-life-examples of social skills in practice—presented in lighthearted humorous cartoons—Growing Friendships is a toolkit for both boys and girls as they make sense of the social environment around them. They will learn how to be open to friendship, choose kind friends, and most important, be a good friend.

Source: Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD. | Growing Friendships: A Kids’ Guide to Making and Keeping Friends, https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-friendships | © 2022 Child Psychologist Eileen Kennedy-Moore, PhD LLC

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