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Use this checklist to prepare for a conversation with your pediatrician or specialist.

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written by Micaelia Randolph, EdD, MA
Educational Consultant

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reviewed by Melanie Hsu, PhD
Licensed Clinical Psychologist & Clinical Program Manager

You are your child’s best advocate. You know your child best. If you have concerns about your child’s development, please speak with your pediatrician or another trusted specialist.

Download the Talking to Your Pediatrician checklist. The recommendations below will help you prepare for and get the most out of your appointment.

  Talking to Your Pediatrician
Do your research and be prepared with your list of questions.
State your observations and concerns clearly. Bring videos of behaviors to show examples.
Be persistent.
Bring a friend to take notes so you can focus on the conversation.
  Indicate which milestones you feel are not being met.
Be sure you understand what you’re being told.
Ask for definitions of terms you don’t understand and how this will affect your child.
You may be referred to more specialists; ask questions about what these specialists do.
Keep a journal of whom you talked with, including dates and topics.
Learn about neurodiversity and the culture of autism.

This resource is part of CHC’s Autism Guide.

Download Talking to Your Pediatrician. See CHC’s Autism Guide for more resources on this topic.


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